What does it mean?

What does it mean when a girl tells a guy that he is nice, kind, generous, sweet, or gentle? You see... a few years ago i was asked this question... and i simply didn't know what it really meant. For each word would mean differently to a girl, but still these words would mean the same in a way. I couldn't really answer this question back then because i myself haven't met a guy who was like this in many terms. Of course i've met guys who were nice, or kind, or gentle- but never more than one or more of the words that are said above.

For a girl to call a guy nice, then he's nothing more than a friend. An ally whom she can talk to an express her feelings. But never getting closer than that.

When she calls a guy kind, he is just friendly at nature. Someone she looks forward to seeing but never being able to get close due to uncertain reasons.

If he is called as a generous man, he puts others before himself. He would give more than he would get, and all it would matter to him is that he can make someone else's day brighter than his own.

A sweet guy, the girl might see him as someone close, but just as a relative in a sense. Someone she can be herself around with but nothing more.

A gentle guy, that's hard to come by now a days. He would be tentative to her feelings and making sure he doesn't go overboard. He would be sensitive at times but that's what makes him more loving.

Now it's hard, finding a guy who has more than one or all of these features. And maybe you would never find one like that. But after these years, i was faced with this question that was stuck at the back of my head... what makes a guy nice? kind? generous? sweet? gentle? Well i can only think of one answer. You can never truly know this until you meet that person. For me, i finally have.

They say nice guys finish last, but hey guess what? They don't finish alone. And all the good ones are always the ones who wait. You see, they would spend all their time wondering when it would be their time to shine, and when they get that chance, they would do everything in their power to treat that girl like a golden star. They know good things are hard to come by so they would never abuse the chance they get to be with a girl.

He's kind, in every way you can imagine. Friend or foe, he's just that kind hearted in nature. He wouldn't lie, and if you needed a helping hand, he'll try his best to help...even if he knows he can't.

He's very VERY generous. Even though he's not Bill Gates or anything like that, when he sees the less fortunate, he doesn't turn a blind eye like society would do to them. He would stop. He would empty out his pockets for them as if it's a natural thing to do. HE would even feed them and that would make him smile like a kid whose going to Disney Land. He puts others before himself and sometimes...maybe a little too much.

He's sweet. Just the way he speaks, makes you feel like you're on cloud 9. As if there's nothing else to worry about. His calm soothing voice and his gentle laughs makes your day with him feel like a lazy sunday afternoon.

He's gentle. He knows his limits, and if he pushes it too far he would apologize...even if it's a tiny matter. He wouldn't blame it on others, he wouldn't make up excuses. He would admit to his mistakes and fix them. The smallest things he does for you would light up your day.

I've met a guy, who has all these qualities. To me, these words all mean differently, and a guy can have all of these things. Though it took some time, i'm happy to meet him, and to be able to stay by his side.